Looking for direction with blogging?

Hidee Ho campers!

So I need some assistance. I need to know if I´m doing this blogging thing right?

I mean is the a right / wrong way to do this? Is there specific things I´m supposed to be doing?? Or is just coming here to vent and chat what I´m supposed to do??

I seen there´s plans where you can get paid to blog, whats that about ??? Or you can get paid to let people advertise on your blog (I´m sure that´s going to make me the next billionaire.LOLOLOL) But what is this blogging all about ?

Oh………….How do I add pictures and stuff like that?

Also…. what are the catagorites and tags all about I mean I put them but what are they for???

Thank you for all your feedback!!!!

Oh, how do I find blogs to follow on here???

—-Wandering blindly into the land of blogging!!

Trisha

 

 

 

 

 

 

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WTF!!! Life!

Holy Crap! So, we all got sick! Good times!!! Hubby still has no voice (bonus!)

I ended up in the hospital for 2 days with a hernia issue and now will most likely need surgery!

  • WTF Life??? Finally starting to feel like I have a little bit of control and then life says

NOPE NOT TODAY!!!! Lets see how you handle this bullshit were about to throw at you!!

SO… here I am, dealing with the bullshit part of life. Now as I am home resting life goes on, my daughter still had cheer, my hubby still works late and my mother is still a pain in my ass, *sidenote my mom lives in my house

**** NEVER I REPEAT NEVER AGREE TO THIS………..AVOID AT ALL COSTS********

That will be a different blog on how that ended up! Lets just say, there are 5………5 RYAN children,,,,,did I say there are 5 Ryan children, because I just want to be clear.  So I took one for the team…….and moms at my house, along with one of the other Ryan children, one of my older brothers is here with me now too!! Yiiippppeeeeee !!!!!!!!

Apparently being the middle child means you get mom! Because the 2 older brothers are too old to take her ( I call bullshit on that ) and the 2 younger —- well the 2 younger are my 1/2 brother and sister by my dad so that would be awkward, but whatever she loves them just like theyre hers so later gater! take her for the weekend! Give your sister a break!

Whats that saying ¨ Just because I have a truck doesn’t mean I want to help you move!!! – Well…….Just because I have the space doesn’t mean you can stay!!! ¨

WTF already! wait…………that needs to the be the title to this blog post…brb

Ok thats better, it was WTF!!! Life got a little nuts for a minute…. but shit its been a week and life is still nuts so I needed to change that title!

Anyways I know that Im rambling on about all RANDOM stuff, I will focus on a blog topic tomorrow, now I must vent!

Ok Im off to bed! Sorry loves for all the randomness tonight! I will try and focus tomorrow! No promises!!!

xoxo

Trisha!!

 

 

 

 

Cont…

So, what happens next…..

I moved out w my daughter on 5/10/2010, we did the whole marriage counseling thing, It wasn’t for us. I filed for divorce that Aug. Fast forward 8 years, he is now one of my closest friends who I can call upon for anything. He is an AMAZING dad to our Princess. He also has a new wife, who I could not have hand picked a better person to be in my daughters life when she’s at her dads. She is fantastic and her and I are very good friends. They have a 5 yr old daughter together who I adore! She is just the cutest little girl and looks exactly like my daughter. So all worked out on the divorce home front.

I am now remarried and happier than I could ever dream possible. My daughter and her step-dad have a really cool relationship ( and usually team up on me) lol, and hes a great role model for her.( also a great homework helper as I stink at Math :))

Taylors Dad and my husband are not best of friends however they do get along and are respectful of each other. We all go out to dinner and do “family” functions all together -birthdays, school functions,(cheer competitions)…..so many damn bows……lololol and we know that the 4 Adults getting along is going to make everything else easier for the 2 kids. So were all one big happy blended family (usually) 🙂  ………..

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

So, this is me.

Hiya!

I wanted to take some time and give you a little background of who I am, some info on my past and what got me to here today. ( this will be done over the course of a few blog posts)

Hi! I’m Trisha! 42 divorced mom of 1 amazing daughter! Needless to say she is the reason I breathe. Also my favorite person on this planet.

Anyway…..Divorced! Yeppers that happen. (gotta give credit where its due–You called it Dad!RIP)

So, My ex and I Dated for 8 years, got married, ups and downs for 9 years. So after my father unexpectedly passed away on 3/8/2010, I realized that life is WAY TOO SHORT. He was only 62. His passing made me take a hard look in the mirror.  Suddenly I seen a reflection of a woman I didn’t know. Starting back at me wasn’t the strong,confident,oponionated woman that my father raised. There was a shell of that woman….however the shell was filled with this woman who was just going thru the motions with her married life, I wasn’t all in. It had been 17 years with this man I no longer loved. I mean I “loved” him. Like—I didn’t want him to get hit by a bus loved him” But it wasn’t “I want to spend forever with you–Love him”…

HELLO!

FIRST THINGS FIRST!

HAPPY            NEW             YEAR!!!!!!!!

Heres to hoping that everyone had a safe NYE, and here to kicking 2018’s butt!!!!

This years going to be epic! My daughter is going to be a teenager and me surviving that should be a miracle.  So, a little about my daughter Taylor. Yes I’m bias and I do believe I have the best looking, smartest, most polite kid ever. I mean….doesn’t every mom.

So, now that that’s out of the way lets get real. Obviously ,yes she is all those things, however shes also a pain in my a$$. Shes a cheerleader, so that means thousands of pratices and games for football (thats over) and “of course” they cheer for basketball too!!! (YAY!!!) Then theres tumbling class on the (one night) we don’t have practice.  There’s the competitions, and the bows (OMG WHY ARE THERE SO MANY DIFFERENT DAMN BOWS!!!!) and the travel and the “Mom can I get this 45.00 sweatshirt from competition b/c I need the memory” (and the sweatshirt is the best way to remember apparently) that’s then going to turn into a sweatshirt she sleeps in, so technically I’m spending $45.00 on a pajama shirt. LOLlolol Man I love this girl!

Off to pick up my girl from school —-which is literally a 10 min walk from my house, however its -7 here so I’ll be a good mom and go pick her up!

Later gaters, be back soon!! Thanks for reading

p.s. —please leave feedback, I’m VERY new at this and would love to her any feedback or what you’d like to hear about! Thanks!

Trisha!

 

 

—DISCLAIMER——THESE ARE ALL MY OWN PERSONAL STORIES, NAMES HAVE BEEN CHANGED TO PROTECT PRIVACY. THESE ARE MY OWN THOUGHTS AND OPONIONS. PLEASE NO HATE OR DISRESPECTFUL COMMENTS. I WOULD LOVE TO HEAR FROM YOU, YOU DONT HAVE TO AGREE WITH ANYTHING I SAY OR DO,HOWEVER I WILL ASK THAT YOU ALWAYS BE RESPECTFUL. TREAT OTHERS THE WAY YOU WANT TO BE TREATED. THANK YO

 

WHOOPSIE!

Apparently I didn’t make my first post “public” so I copied and pasted it here b/c I cant figure out how t go back and edit it so it is public. LOL Enjoy!!

Private: My 1st blog…

Lets see how this goes? So I started this blog b/c I need a way to de-stress.

Not much of a gym rat ( even though I pay monthly for it) I can never find the time in the day to get myself there. Was going to try therapy, then I found the same issue I had with the gym, cant seem to find the time. I’ve been told a 10000000000000000 times that “if its important to you, you will find the time not an excuse”. Well look, then rock on with your bad self if you can make the time. b/c this chick hasn’t figured that out yet.

Seeing its 3:33AM and I’m typing this now b/c I fell asleep on the couch for 2hrs and now I cant sleep! Good times !!! So I said screw it , I’m going to try this. I have my phone w me always and when I need to vent or need advice, or just need to write about something awesome I can, when it works for me, like now at 3:36am.

So this is going to be a blog about my insane life, my crazy family and my great kid.

Its going to be about me being stressed out as a mom, wife ,sister , daughter, person,

I hope you like it and will return and read my crazy adventures and my life that just bonkers sometimes. See you soon……….

Trisha!

 

—DISCLAIMER——THESE ARE ALL MY OWN PERSONAL STORIES, NAMES HAVE BEEN CHANGED TO PROTECT PRIVACY. THESE ARE MY OWN THOUGHTS AND OPONIONS. PLEASE NO HATE OR DISRESPECTFUL COMMENTS. I WOULD LOVE TO HEAR FROM YOU, YOU DONT HAVE TO AGREE WITH ANYTHING I SAY OR DO,HOWEVER I WILL ASK THAT YOU ALWAYS BE RESPECTFUL. TREAT OTHERS THE WAY YOU WANT TO BE TREATED. THANK YOU!